Would you want to get advice on something like how to dress?

I recently started dating a guy whom I like a lot. When I introduced him to one of my friends, she commented that he doesn’t dress very well.

I guess this is true. He doesn’t look sloppy or messy, just… not very put-together. I doubt this is holding him back in his life or having any real negative impact on him, so it makes me feel shallow to consider saying something.

However, I think if he made a few simple changes, he would look substantially better. For instance, even his dress clothes are way too baggy—and he is a fit guy, and could get away with showing that off a little more!

So my motives in giving him this advice are not very admirable, but I do think ultimately he’d benefit from it.

Would you want to get advice like this? What’s the best way to deliver it?