How can I make my marriage work?

My husband And I have been married for a little less than a year, and it seems like everyday we get closer and closer to a divorce.We do love each other and we both want to be married. It just seems like nothings the same as it used to be and we both want that first kiss feeling back. We have tried counseling and niether one of us feel comfortable with it. I need advice so we can help save our marriage and our family.