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Would you be angry if you found out your significant other was in a hot tub with the opposite sexes?

Asked by evry1luvzaazngrl (268points) November 18th, 2010

My boyfriend was going to a party with a female friend. I didn’t want to party so I stayed home. I wasn’t worried about her because she is obsessed with some other guy and is finally moving to be with him across the country. Anyways, she was his ride so they went to her friend’s party. Turned out there was only like 3 other girls there and no guys. When my bf came home he looked through his pictures in front of me, and it was pics of the night because one of the girl’s wanted him to send her the pics for Facebook.

It was at his friend’s friend’s house. Huge mansion with a pool and hot tub. The three girls were in the bikinis but his friend I know of was in a T-shirt and shorts because she’s conservative. The girls had huge boobs and some pics of them bein attention whores as if saying “look at me” with their butt sticking out at the camera and other stupid poses.

I got really upset with him that he was in a hot tub with them, especially when attractive and them trying to take pics of their butts. He said he didn’t know it was just going to be all girls and he didn’t want to just leave just because it was a hot tub thing.

I dont’ think he understands that even though he didn’t do anything physical, I’m not comfortable with them trying to be all flirty and crap tempting him.

I mean it would’ve been okay if there was some guys there and if the girls didn’t seem like whores.

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