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When someone gives you a compliment, what is the proper response?

Asked by MissAnthrope (21511points) November 19th, 2010

Compliments flatter me deeply, but they also make me feel really awkward because other than saying “thank you”, at the very least, I honestly am not sure where to go from there.

I usually feel compelled to compliment the person back, but shouldn’t I just be able to accept the compliment? Responding to a compliment with a compliment doesn’t feel right sometimes, though. I’ve trained myself to say “thank you” instead of directly deflecting, maybe I am deflecting their compliment in a different way. But people generally like being complimented, no? I’m not sure what I’m supposed to do or what other people do.

What is the right way to handle a compliment?

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