Have you ever looked at your significant other's internet history?

Did you find anything that really bugged you? Or disturbed you when you saw it? Did you feel bad for looking?

I looked at my husband’s history and got really upset when I saw that he was looking at jobs in Japan and about how to date Japanese girls. I don’t know if it was random from some other job search he had done because he has always thought about working overseas. And I know he’s really into Asian girls which sucks for me because I can’t look like that. But he always said it didn’t matter.

I only looked because he lied about something else a while back. So I look sometimes. Haven’t been happy about a couple things I saw, but nothing upset me like this did. I feel kind of bad for looking but I also feel like I need to watch to see if it happens again. (If anybody cares we have been together for 9 years. He always said he would tell me if anything is wrong so maybe I shouldn’t worry?)

Have you been through this? Or something like it? What did you do?