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What exactly is an obsessive friend and is mine one?

Asked by vade66 (68points) December 4th, 2010 from iPhone

I’ve heard my sister talk about someone who is obsessive to their friend and I started wondering if my friend was.
Here are some things that
might help determine if she is
obsessive:
She follows me everywhere.
When she needs help with something even if it’s some tiny
little thing she calls me even if she knows I don’t know
anything about it.
After a volley ball game, she almost always asks me to
come over even if she knows I
have a headache. When I get
headaches I am pretty anti-
social and just want to sleep
and get annoyed very easily.
Or she asks even when I am
sick.
This is sort of a follow up of my first one. Even when I am
walking in circles and sort of
pacing or just walking
randomely like I sometimes do
she will follow me and only
stops if someone else talks to
her.
If I am waiting after school for
my sister to get out of tutoring
she stays with me even
though we have to be quiet.
Sometimes she goes to the library after school and asks
me to go with her even though
we can’t talk at all and I have
nothing to do but just sit there
and look around while she
does homework.
She sometimes gets a little mad or disapointed if I don’t
follow her somewhere.
She begs me to go to the bathroom with her or to the school
office or somewhere else I
don’t want to go.
Thats about it. Is my friend obsessive? If so, on a scale of one to ten, how much? What should I do about it?
Thank you and Happy
Holidays!!!!!!!:):):):)

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