Do you think I am being crazy/unreasonable?

½/11 is my 1 year wedding anniversary, its been a rough year, we have 5 kids between us both and we have got to go out alone a total of one time this whole year, I work day shift he works night shift we spend more time away from eachother then together. We have been discussing wedding anniversary plans, I wanted to go to a nice romantic dinner then go to a hotel and have a nice quiet time together just us, he suggested we take the kids go to Arkansas where his best friend lives, hang out there for a night then let him watch the kids so we can go hang out for our anniversary. I told him I wasnt so much on board with taking the kids and hanging out with his friends on our anniversary weekend and he flipped out, he said I was being crazy this is a perfect plan anyone in the world would say the same thing and if I didnt like the plan oh well he will just take the kids and celebrate our anniversary with them. Am I being crazy??