How do you Jellies react and feel about flirting from the opposite sex?

I think there is some misunderstanding with regards to flirting. When someone of the opposite sex flirts with you, whether through compliments, body langauge or any other means is it a black and white they are hitting on you? Do you see it that way or maybe some other way. I’m married, I flirt, but for me I’m paying a compliment and not trying to get somewhere with them. Thoughts?