Does problems of the elderly tear your family apart or bring you together?

My Mom is 91 and now has totally lost some reality this week. My sister works at UPS and Mom is now staying in her basement. It is a mansion, but could the move be effecting her mind?

My sister is out of town half the time…...and being a control freak, takes charge from 4 states away. And is cutting me out of decisions.

How does your family deal?