Have you ever cheated on fluther but returned here in the end?

I must confess that my true love was wis.dm but wis.dm has been dead for over two years and having been widowed at a relatively young age, I had to move on and am now pretty much married to fluther. However, in the past day or so I have spent quite a few hours on sodahead.com after someone here mentioned it and, well, I just don’t know. I’m not sure if I really like it and I’m not sure if I’ll go back. Have you tried other similar sites and not liked them or have you tried other similar websites and liked them and go back and forth between fluther and the other web sites?