Are you now or have you ever been a stud?

Stud, in this question, includes all genders.

Has there ever been a time in your life when you were really popular and people kind of kept falling into your lap, wanting to be with you, maybe as a lover? If so, why do you think people were attracted to you? What did you do about it? Did you try to accommodate everyone? Did you turn everyone away except one? How did you handle it?