Is graverubbing respectfull?

in one argument, it an be extremely disrespectfull to trace a person’s tombstone because…well i dont know why (thats what fluther is for), and on the other hand, you’re bringing a memory of the person with you when you frame it. you can share that memory with others.

p.s.: graverubbing is when you trace the texture of a tombstone using charcoal on thin paper, kind of like when you would look at the veins in a leaf in grade 2 art class.