How do I get over severe social anxiety?

Social anxiety is keeping me from holding a job or making close friends which leads me to depression. I don’t have health insurance and even if I did what would seeing a doctor even do for me? I won’t take pills. Family is out of the question for help, I don’t really have one anymore. The few members I still talk to I would never ask for help because they’re morons. I tried a meet up group for social anxious people but it was no help. At the end of the day I didn’t feel any different .I am running out of ideas.