Do you feel it is a woman's responsibility to lose weight to please her husband? (NSFW)

I have always been overweight and when my husband and I married two years ago, I was maybe 10 lbs lighter but still on the heavier side. Since we married, my husband has been less affectionate and dropping hints about my eating and exercise habits. He no longer tells me I am beautiful or compliments me on my appearance.

After a heated discussion regarding our sex life (or lack thereof); I asked him why he married me if he found me to be too heavy for him to be attracted to? His response was, ” I thought you would change if I wanted you too.”

So I ask you Fluther community: Should I try to change to please my husband? He is a very good husband in many other ways and I do love him very much.