How long after you start dating do you add them to your social network places accounts?

I been out of the dating world for, like 20 or so years. Long before Twitter and FaceBook and, let’s face it, phrases like dot com, all one word, blog, and putting e before the regular word (eMail, eMarket) were commonplace. But if someone was to get back into the dating pool, at what point do you accept a friends request or follow?

Personally, I have this rule that says if I see you in the real world I will ignore your friends request on FaceBook, as that would seem pointless. But if you want a new relationship to continue and build, you may want to make this person the rule to prove the exception to this rule though she may wonder why you have no real life friends on faceBook. But that’s a different question.

The beef is, when is it customary in this day to allow somebody you are dating into your eWorld (One of those eTerms that made no sense 20 years ago).