Do the signs point to love?

Nearly ten years ago, I fell in love. We parted ways. He returned the following year. Sparks flew, and then away again he flew. Seven years passed, and I’ve thought of him nearly everyday. I found him online, and we’ve become phone buddies. I drove 2000 miles just to see him. We talked. Then for months we didn’t. Now we’ve been talking again almost daily for months. He called me, coincidently, right when I finally got a new job after being unemployed for six months. I applied all over the country for a job, and decided to let fate decide where I should go. I applied from Alaska to FL, CA to NY, only to end up a few hours away from him. I see his name nearly everyday. One day I saw his name 5 times and I wanted to fall in the floor. Are there signs? Do you believe in fate?
We’ve talked about our connection we share. We think the same, and we are so much alike it’s comical. Now he’s confusing me because I believe he is confused himself. He thinks I like everything about him. When I told him what I don’t like about him he tried to justify his flaws, and asked me to tell him what I do like about him. Then he FINALLY told me that he doesn’t feel the same way about me. He wants me to get over him and be happy. He asked what he said to make me think that he loves me. Besides the little things he does now, besides the fact that he did once admit it years ago, he told me, “Somethings I can’t tell you, you just have to know.” When I used this for my example, he can’t explain himself and says, “See, I’ve already said too much.” I think he does love me. I feel it, or is it my own feelings I’m feeling? Have I been in love with him for so long that I am in denial that he doesn’t love me? He said that he won’t ask me to call him anymore. That’s bologna! He repeated asks me to call him regularly, many times with only hours in between callings. Could it be possible that this guy values our friendship so much to remain in contact so frequently? Could it be that he just loves me too much to let me go?