When , and how, did you decide to stop looking for love?

I am not so interested in a young perspective here, because they are still bright-eyed and bushy-tailed – as it should be in terms of biology.

Those of you who are in their second marriage/relationship, or dating again.

Is there a point in your relationship that you stopped thinking about, to quote a funny movie (The Mask) the BBD – the bigger better deal?

Was there a point when you said – alrighty then – this person is it for me – I don’t want to look anymore.

Was it a compromise? Was it love – like the first time around? Is that even possible?

I don’t want to all wundayatta here, but my question is: when, and how, did you do the math and decide that this one’s for me?