How can I shave without the feeling of tearing my face up?

I’ve begun to have problems shaving my face now. At first, it was a smooth move for me, no pain or nicks. Now, it feels like I’m tearing my flesh off. I’ve done everything from using warm water before, using sensitive cream, using electric razors/shavers, and using OTC medicines. No help so far, I would love to get this fixed before I get out from the military because I think I’m overdue for my Goatee, lol.