He's lost interest. What do you do?

You met him in a chat room. You start up a relationship that is casual on your side; you’ve got plenty of other real life friends. You don’t know and don’t care what he got out of it.

Then over many long online conversations, you fall in love with him. He’s needy; obsessed with you; and has no self-confidence. But you love the way he showers you with attention and you feel wanted and desired.

At the same time you are meeting other guys in the chat room and stripping for them. You flirt with an ex. You take advantage of your lover’s loneliness and relish the power it gives you. But you also start to feel something that you think of as love for him.

He’s been living in England and is about to come home to Wisconsin. You think things will change when he gets home and you are right. Your roles reverse. You are begging him for online time. You stalk his facebook page and find all kinds of beautiful women are his friends.

It seems to you that he has forgotten you in place of video games, his friends and other females. Your heart had melted and your self-confidence had shattered. He was once your man, the guy whom you knew would love you no matter what.. and suddenly he had no interest in you.

You are devastated and you want him back. What can you do?