If you had a second chance to speak with a deceased relative, what would you say to him/her?

If I had the chance to bring my mother back for even 5 minutes, I would tell her I was sorry I didn’t produce any grandchildren for her while she was alive and how they will never get to know her and her them. I would tell her I should have listened to her better, because if I did I may have done more for her before she passed. I would apologize for not being a better son, even though I felt I was there more than my brothers. I would tell her how I miss her opinion, support, and counsel when I needed it and was low. I would tell her I was sorry I did not live up to my full potential and it was of no fault of hers. I would tell her that at least

Given another five minutes, who would you speak to an what would you tell them, good tuff or tell them off?