What sexual identity is the US trying to have really?

Looking over questions the robot direct to me and back questions as well, there seem to be a lot directed towards sex and/or nudity. By reading them and the responses, it appears the US has not a clue what or how it wants to be defined sexually as a nation, it doesn’t want to be seemingly repressive as the Middle East where women are covered head to toe. It don’t want to be like Asia where many places you have public baths with mix genders of all ages, nor does it want to be like Europe where you have topless women on beaches, Page 3 girls in news papers, or on TV, etc. In the US many places have not followed suit with the rest of the globe on the age of majority. Yet, in the US, the underlying goal to coupling up is to do the horizontal mambo. If you did not hit the sheets by date three the relationship is on life support or going nowhere. IMO 70% of everything sold, uses sex in some way to sell it. When I look at Japan, the Middle East, Spain, etc, I get a better gist on their sexual climate or expectation more than the US. If you had to sum it up, what would you say the sexual ID of the US would be? Have we in the US, hit, or missed that mark? Will we ever have a clear vision or is the nation just too large with too many people from too many places?