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[NSFW] When you're being physically intimate with your S.O. do you notice their physical flaws?

Asked by tedibear (19315points) August 9th, 2011

By “notice” I mean see or touch.

Jiggly thighs, flabby stomach or backside, double chin or whatever it may be, are you aware of any of that in the midst of sex with your S.O.? I’m particularly interested in the male P.O.V., but obviously anyone is welcome to answer.

I’ve read things where men say that they’re only looking at the things they like, but what if you love someone who doesn’t have much physically that you do like? What gets you through that? Fantasizing? Just closing your eyes?

This comes a little bit from another question where it was asked if you would be embarrassed to introduce your overweight spouse.

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