Meta talk - is it possible?

What I mean by Meta-talk is an (IMHO) rare type of communication, without hangups, as in awareness-to-awareness. Think of it as actors talking to each other during pauses in a play, now think of our reality as the play. A dissociation from our “roles” in society, followed by a pure exchange of experiences. My question is this – have you ever been able to talk with someone in such a way? If not, why is it so difficult to get people to think/talk about life in this manner, to put aside the perceptions of ourselves and just talk as one sentient being to another instead of focusing on what we are in our society?