I often don't wear my engagement ring out of fear of being judged ? Is that weird ?

I love my ring.. it is big by average standards for my society, however I feel like my ring is for me.. I didn’t pick it because I want to show off on on other people.

However, I hate it when people grab at my hand and act all weird about it.

As a result, sometimes I deliberately take it off before going out and just wear my wedding band , depending on who I am meeting because I don’t like it when people ogle it and act all weird about it or try to make assumptions about my fiance social status because of it. I just don’t like that people attach such importance to such things. I have a big ring so what.. Why can’t they just leave it at that and not have to get all weird and touchy.

What do you think ? How do i overcome this ?