When is the right time to start wearing lingerie for a new beau?

We were friends years ago in college. We lost touch for a little. Then we dated for a little. We lost touch for a decade. We found each other (yay). We’ve started dating in the past month.

Umm…when is the timing right to start wearing the sexy lingerie (merry widows, thigh high stockings)? I’m afraid if I do this all too soon there’s nothing left for fun.

Maybe I’m wrong. I just want to keep it all exciting.

Thank you fluther folks!