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Do you think exes will treat their next significant other better than the last relationship?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) October 31st, 2011

This has just been on my mind because I found out my ex has a new girlfriend. I’m wondering if she’ll have to put up with issues I had to deal with like

-Him not being affectionate enough…in the beginning of our 5½ year relationship he was sweet..then it dwindled down and every once in a blue moon he was romantic. He didn’t make me feel special often…just once in a while…

-His money issues. it made me go so broke from helping him out. he only settles for a dream job and he is still “working” on it.

-Him not compromising if it hurts feelings. He wouldn’t compromise a situation if I was in pain because he didn’t understand how I felt

-Being selfish in bed. He wasn’t bad at sex but he seemed to mostly care about himself and his sexual needs than mine

How likely is it that the ex treats the new gf way better?

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