What made you feel most intensely jealous?

I felt such jealousy when I found out my first lover had another lover. She met him over the summer and would talk to him on the phone right in front of me.

Even though I didn’t love my second lover as much as the first, my jealousy was even worse when she went upstairs at a party (that I was attending also), and ended up fucking someone. Worse? I’d say it was a jealous rage!

I know it happened because I’d followed them upstairs when I saw her going with him. I heard them inside the room. She admitted it as soon as I confronted her. I think it was the complete randomness of it that bothered me the most. That’s an experience I will never forget!

What event made you most jealous? Why were you jealous? What did the jealousy cause you to do? Did you overreact or underreact? Are you ashamed of your jealousy or do you feel justified? Why?