What is the best way to prevent being attacked on this website because of a question?

If you ask questions on here, it will not surprise me if you have felt attacked at least once as a result of one of your questions. This question is for you, for me, and for everyone else who needs help with this. Who knows? Maybe someone you felt attacked by felt attacked by someone else, so please let’s all be nice here and make this thread about offering tips to each other. If you want to attack, please feel free to leave your coat at the door and be nice right now or leave this thread. Thank you in advance! :)