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I'm confused, what shall I do?

Asked by the_overthinker (1532points) January 5th, 2012

Okay, as you may notice, my previous question somewhat relates to this.

But I must elaborate. To be frank, I’m confused. I don’t know what I want. And my previous question seems to not ask what I intended.

Most of the time subconsciously, little things that are said or done (such as body language) may suggest interest as more than friends (depending on how they interpret it.) I am very friendly and happy. Usually I just try to be friendly, and keep people in the friend zone, because I’m not sure if I want anything more.

Seems like most of the time, I’m just not sure. Apparently I was oblivious, but my friends have pointed out that another friend (let’s call him Abbel) have suggested that Abbel is interested in me… And after a long time.. I’ve also started to realize he is giving hints.

I don’t know what to do, as I love hanging out with him, I’m not sure if I want to give off the wrong message.. But I’m not totally sure I want to push him away either.

Shall I continue just being a good friend? Shoving off any sort of topics that may suggest being anything more than friends, and wait until I know what I want?

Ultimately, I don’t know if I’ll ever know what I want. I think I’m just afraid. And for what it may matter, I am a college student, with little experience in relationships and dating.

Thanks for listening to my nonsense.

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