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Do most men do housework before marriage but none afterwards?

Asked by Aster (20023points) January 7th, 2012

What was going on crept up on me gradually. He cleaned and straightened up HIS house before we got married and I stupidly thought, “wow; this is great!” Then it abruptly stopped after we married and , although he fixes things and pays the bills, he acts terribly insulted and irritable if doing anything related to cleaning. I mean anything. So I’ve just let it slide while he complains, although not a lot, about disorder. Is this common? Or do most men do “nothing” but fix things after fifty? At forty five and single he did it all. I know; it’ll never change. But is it normal?

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