Engaged and joining a fraternity?

Asked by Prettyjay28 (65) January 17th, 2012 from iPhone

My fiancé wants to join a fraternity,but I’m worried that they might try to make him do things that single men do even though I don’t believe he would do it. However joining means a lot to him and I don’t know much about these things but is it common for a married young man to join a fraternity
The only things I hear about is the party’s drinking and having sex with girls

This isn’t a trust issue. I’m asking a simple question