1) Were you spanked as a child? 2) How fearful of a person are you today?

I ask these questions together because I want to see if the two really relate. If you answer them, please provide the following details…

1) Were you spanked as a child?

- How often do you remember being spanked?
– What have you been spanked with?
– Did you always understand why you were spanked?
– Were you told?
– How did you feel when you were?

2) How fearful of a person are you today?

- Are you afraid of punishment? If so, which punishments are you afraid of?
– What are you afraid of (include everything)? How much of it has to do with being spanked when you were younger?
– Are you a perfectionist?
– Do you fear failure?
– Do you fear disappointment?
– How hard do you try to please others?
– How scared are you of consequences, even for minor and trivial issues?
– How scared are you to confront the person/people who spanked you about a problem you have with him or her?
– Do you feel like you have to defend the person/people who spanked you because you feel it would be wrong not to? If so, why?

Feel free to include anything you feel I’ve missed if you feel it relates to this topic of discussion.