If you are under 18 and dating, does sex come up as an issue and if so, how do you deal with it?

Supposedly sex is so much easier these days, but still, I imagine it can be as complicated and confusing to navigate this rite of passage today as it was when I was a teen.

Do you want to? Do you not want to? When are you ready? Do you get pressured? By whom? What did you say/do in response? Did you pressure? Who? How? What happened?

What are your values? Is virginity something to save? Get rid of? Do you sneak around to have sex? Are your parents cool with it? Do you even talk to them about it?

So many questions, and I feel like they should all be real questions, but there are too many, so feel free to answer one, all, or some of them. Or talk about whatever this brings up for you.