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How are you? Really. [4].

Asked by Hawaii_Jake (37355points) April 4th, 2012

This is a semi-annual question I like to ask, and it’s that time again.

A lot goes on in our lives that we keep quiet. We meet family, friends, and neighbors on a daily basis with the question “How are you?”, and we hear the same “Fine, and you?” Our reply is “Fine” more often than not.

Do you mean it? Are you fine?

We’re an anonymous collective here. Take this opportunity to tell us how you really feel. How’s your health? How’s the weather? How are your relationships with your SO, family, friends, coworkers, etc., going? What’s your day like? How’s your job? What’s bugging you personally?

How are you? Really.

I’m okay. I’m poor and loving it. I never thought I could be so content on so little. I have access to health care. I have clean water to drink right from the faucet. I eat well. I’m reading some great books. I have friends who genuinely care about me.

My mental health is up and down. As most of you know, I have bipolar disorder. I take medication for it, but that has some unpleasant side effects. Still, it’s much better than being without medication. My moods are somewhat manageable. I wish I didn’t have bipolar, but I do. I worry about the long-term prognosis, though.

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