Anyone who has struggled with friendships? How do you know if you are trying too hard to make friends?

I’m talking when all you can really do is text or chat and cannot hang out in person. I seem to be making friends easier with guys than girls, for I don’t know what reason. I don’t know its easier to just be? Is it too much to text someone everyday or should the person wait 2 weeks? I’m also talking about friendships on facebook. I hung out with this guy 6 times in 2 weeks. Am I being overbearing? Should one of them text me?