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When you let someone else make the first move, what do you give up?

Asked by wundayatta (58722points) June 27th, 2012

This question was inspired by a question about first moves in dating, but I mean more than in dating. If you wait until someone else initiates something—anything, really—do you lose anything? Or is it all the same, no matter who makes the first move?

Examples of first moves or not first moves and how that changed things for you, potentially, are welcome.

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