This is a two part question, but tied together: What first draws you to another person and then what keeps you wanting to be with that person?

Just a thought that’s bouncing around my head. What makes you approach the other person, and then what makes them the love of your life? What do you think drives you to put it out there first, and then why do you stay with them? Notice this is gender neutral. I want to hear from everyone on this. And as always, humor greatly appreciated.