Is he cheap or what?

Ok, so I had a first date today. The good looking, friendly, attentive (never been married) fellow spent 5 hours with me on our first date. He took me for a “soda” at a local lunch spot, asked me if I would like a calamari appetizer, which we shared. Then we walked on the waterfront at a farmer’s market and to a friend’s boat. The time flew, and at 5:00, he asked if I wanted a cup of coffee at a different restaurant. We went in, he brushed aside the appetizer menu and never asked if I wanted anything to eat. (I was famished by this time and didn’t know how to bring up my growling stomach….) SO, is he hopelessly cheap without redemption, not a gentleman, or just plain ignorant?? Do I write this otherwise seemingly great guy off, or do I bring this up so it doesn’t happen again!!