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In a relationship but wants to sleep around. Whats your thoughts?

Asked by jm5225 (253points) November 26th, 2012

So I met this guy that I have been dating for only a short time but we have a blast together and we spend just about every day together, sleep together(in both ways) etc. etc. Things were great until he realized he jumped into things to fast and has been in relationship after relationship. Never had time to play the fields I guess.

He won’t let me go…and I don’t want to go. To be honest…i’ve fallen pretty hard but find myself disappointed often. Nothing major just little things. We broke up and he slept with his ex.

Of course I was angry and tried to say I was done but I somehow got sucked back in and now we are just kind of hanging out. I know he realizes he didn’t play his cards right there but I also know that he is not ready for what I am. What does one do in a situation like this? Wait around until he is ready? Walk away?

Truthfully I am not okay with him having sex with others but I also feel so strongly for him that I can’t seem to just turn away and call it quits especially when we are together every day. He isn’t a whore or some kind of slut but he has temptation and I know this. I’ve been there I just know I am very ready for something legit with him. Any advice?

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