At which point in your life did you stop living for other people?

When did you realize that people judge you anyway? That a lot of choices you made perhaps, were for other’s benefit , but in return left you frustrated or lost?

When did you, if you have, realize, even when trying to explain you would be judged anyway? (For e.g. Being mentally ill or different in some way). Or misunderstood.

How did this change you? Were you alienated? Or have you found yourself alienating others? How has it changed you? For the better? What positives and or negatives did you take away with you because of this experience?