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(nsfw)Is it normal for my husband to want me so much?

Asked by popcornbabe (23points) March 23rd, 2013

I’m not married yet, but me and my fiance are waiting to get married before making love. We are in an LDR and we plan on getting married in 2 years. We mostly talk via the internet since he is in another country. I asked my fiance when we get married how many times would he want to do it in a week. I was expecting him to say like 5–7 times but he said 21 and then, he said maybe 35 that’s like 5 times a day everyday. He wasn’t kidding either. So after reading about how some women have husbands who don’t want sex at all, I feel more relieved because I know he will always want and desire me, and I know he loves me. 5 times a day every day is difficult…that’s like your whole life…unless we basically spend all night making love, in which case we would be really tired and sleepy all day…I’m not sure how we could stay functional. I’m not complaining, but I’m also worried that I don’t know what I’m getting into. Having never had sex I don’t know what to expect. Would it be painful? would I not enjoy it? Would i turn into one of those women who don’t want to have sex at all? I love him and I love being around him when I can be, because of the distance. I promised him when we get married that I wouldn’t refuse him unless it was that time of the month, i was in the latter months of pregnancy or he or I was physically sick or in pain…or any other reason in which we both agree to be without it for a bit of time. So I wouldn’t mind making love as a married couple everyday, but is 35 times a week even healthy? Would it make us raw down there? Is it normal to want that much sex?

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