Why would I be the "bad girlfriend' if I don't want him getting lap dances?

I just thought about this randomly because my bf and I have friends getting married and are having bachelor and bachelorette parties. I thought “What if they’re going to a strip club?” and just googled some opinions and what others had to say. I was just reading opinions about strippers and stuff and everyone was making it out to be WRONG and selfish if you’re uncomfortable with your man getting a lap dance.

My bf and I got one once on separate occasions. I mean, the girls bought me one and I didn’t even enjoy it. My bf at his friend’s bachelor party don’t even remember much because he was really wasted and they had to leave early because he couldn’t even walk (most of them were really drunk).

But yeah, I didn’t give him hell about the lap dance since I got one but I just realized it made me feel bad and I didn’t think it would lol.

But yeah, I just voiced my opinion I wouldn’t like it if some naked girl was grinding on him and putting boobs in his face and everyone was saying I’m selfish, insecure, and being a party pooper.

I’m surprised that no one can understand how I’d feel. I thought many would relate. Guess it’s just me?