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What should I do about my boyfriend who will be leaving soon?

Asked by yankeecandlee (45points) May 8th, 2013

I met my boyfriend in July of last year. We didn’t have any romantic relationship until about September and then we didn’t begin dating until November. He lives about an hour and a half away right now but it works out fine and we get to see each other pretty much every weekend. I like him a whole lot and can tell he likes me a whole lot as well. We don’t talk feelings all that much but I can sense it pretty strongly. We’ve both had one other relationship although I think mine was more serious than his previous one.
He’s going to college in a month. In Texas…I’m in Virginia. I don’t know what to do. We still need to talk about it but I’m not sure what I should suggest. I feel like I should let him go and just be hurt for a while but then again it might work since we already do a semiLDR…not nearly as long though. I don’t see us getting married or anything but if anything my feelings have grown as I’ve fallen harder in the last few months…I’m not ready for this relationship to be over and I don’t believe he is either. What should I suggest to happen? Or how should I get to know what he really wants, not influenced by what I want (not that I even really know haha)?

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