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(NSFW) No "intimacy" for peace of mind?

Asked by CuriousLoner (1812points) May 13th, 2013

I feel like this would be something good for me to do. Wonder if it would give me more focus. I don’t know for how long.

Sometimes I feel the need or thought of sexual desire is redundant and not necessary. Anytime I satisfy an urge it is a repeating process. I understand it is human nature especially for my age and gender.

This in part goes back a question I asked while back similar. I just feel like it gets in the way of things. Truly wish it didn’t exist for me at all if I had the easy power of turning it off and on.

Although really that goes back to discipline, right?

This is NOT for religious reasons and NOT because “I am ashamed of it.” I feel perfectly fine when I have sex or masturbate it is just that fact for myself that it feels meaningless and empty after a while and I could be doing better things with my time,energy,focus and it always creeps into my brain rather annoying.

Is my thinking too over the top in someways? Other people feel this way?

For reference purposes:
http://www.fluther.com/157230/nsfw-i-feel-i-have-a-problem-with-self-intimacy-how-do/

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