Putting temptation into a relationship, sure way for an affair?

I was just watching a show about a wife uncomfortable with her husband hiring a hot maid. Honestly, if you trust your spouse…would it be an issue if a really hot nanny or maid were around all the time inside the house for hours just about every day?

I read a lot of comments saying women trusted their husbands but would never hire a hot nanny and put temptation in front of him every day especially if she wasn’t around. Does that make it kind of ironic? I trust my man not to go out and cheat but I feel like putting a situation where they could be alone and get along might stir up some “emotions” and maybe go in a fine line between friendly and emotional cheating.

Some even say “it’s like putting a sundae in front of a person on a diet. Eventually they’re going to give in”

What do you think?

Also
I feel like I need to talk to my bf about emotional cheating, like what he considers it to be and how to avoid putting yourself in that situation ya know? When I was younger I was with my ex who I loved a lot but even then I had put myself in compromising situations with an attractive class mate talking often for long hours, meeting up a lot, etc. There was no flirting and he wasn’t kept a secret…I mean I had a slight crush but I loved my bf at the time too much to let it get anywhere and we became good friends instead. It was still wrong now that I think about it. I mean I was attracted and kinda thinking of him often in the beginning of meeting him.
But having the chance now I’m older, I would not risk my relationship now and do that lol.