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(NSFW) If you love someone right now, what would you do if...

Asked by LornaLove (10037points) July 28th, 2013

If you are deeply in love, as in time has passed and this is your soulmate, what would you do if he/she decided to change their sexual identity?

I asked my boyfriend this tonight. What if I was exactly how I am, I am me, everything we have shared is still there, our souls inexplicably intertwined, our love still deep, but now I had a penis? Would it change? He seemed to be repulsed of course. He identifies as heterosexual and loves women.

What would you do? Would you leave because your partner has changed sexual organs? Moving passed the bizarre feeling and back to that person’s soul, would you manage to stay? After all we are more than the sum of our private parts? Or are we?

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