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Have you ever been in a relationship with someone with dysfunctional views on this topic [NSFW]?

Asked by Mariah (25883points) July 17th, 2014

The topic is sex. Sorry, couldn’t remember if the guidelines have an issue with NSFW words in the question title.

Another question thread got me thinking about my recent ex, who unfortunately is the first person I ever had sex with. I’m not crying myself to sleep over it or anything, but I wish I’d realized earlier how dysfunctional his views on sex were. It was a damaging experience. I can elaborate in the discussion thread.

I’m curious about other jellies’ experiences with partners with unhealthy views on sex – or if you were once that partner!

What was the situation? How did it affect you at the time and in the aftermath? What do you think brings about this mindset in people? Does its occurrence indicate a flaw in our sex education or our culture’s views on sex?

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