Do you like old friends from other states inviting themselves to your home?

I hate to be an old scrooge but I seem to collect old friends, women, who keep nagging me about, “I’d love to come visit you” when they live hundred of miles away meaning they’d have to spend at least one night. Hello? If I want to see them I’ll go see them. Why do they do this? I never encourage them in my replies but here they come again on Facebook. I am not lonely; maybe they are. Then they say, “I love you” when they don’t, in Facebook messages, which I think is so fake. One is a niece who I saw twice when she was two; now she’s in her forties. Do you do this or do you have people doing this to you? I’m sorry for not being that social.