What should I do? Am I going too far?

The person I was talking too lives in Philly, and I live in NYC.

Anyway…I met this guy online in a chat room, and I didn’t think much of him when he first messaged me because he expected me to remember his name. I thought it was cute, but after that he asked for my kik username, and we spoke for weeks until he mentioned wanting to come up here, and visit me. I felt kind of taken back by the whole thing, and I didn’t really have the cash to run around with, I of course felt terrible cause he cleared out his whole day to see me. After that we spoke like nothing happened, and when the next weekend came around he canceled because his sister ended up in the emergency room- I understood that may have been scary for him so I encouraged him to stay close to home. Friday was the last I heard from him, the weekend came, and went still no sign of him- I called his phone was on but no one picked up. I sent a text, and still no response.

I don’t know why he would do something like this, we spoke on the phone for 2–3 hours a day for almost 2 months. I don’t know what could’ve happened, but I’m getting as desperate as writing into MTV’s Catfish- a casting director responded, and I don’t want to have to go on national television to find out what’s going on. But I just feel completely compelled to do so. Any advice? If this Catfish director calls should I move forward?