How do you show empathy and not support?

Asked by Ladybug2014 (179) November 2nd, 2014 from iPhone

I would never support wrongdoing. However I do show empathy. When all the chips are down I feel abandoning family and friends is wrong. That’s when they need you the most. However I am being scrutinized because people think I support them. I just can’t understand why people can’t see the difference. if anyone has helpful words to help explain this I would appreciate it.